Wedding & Marriage
It seems that most the people around me are getting married.
Ah, maybe not directly connected, but still, they are getting married. They are taking that giant leap of faith. You know, the responsibility that they have to carry together. This weight they have to lift, the lives they have to combined.
Did I mention the life they would have to nourish and nurture?
Oh boy.
Most of them are in their mid and late twenties. But seriously, its a big step. I wonder when my closed 20-something friends are getting married. Haha…It would be hilarious.
Would they invite people to their wedding through Facebook’s RSVP? Attending, Not attending, Maybe Attending.
It would be even more hilarious.
Talk about advanced and new generation. As if wasting trees for their fancy wedding invitations aren’t adequate. Then again, you only get married only once.
Ooops, maybe you would get the chance to get married again. I mean, isn’t that the trend? Nikah, cerai, nikah lagi, cerai lagi. Yada… Yada…
My point is, marriage is a huge step. I mean, its not just mere signing documents, legalize your sexual intercourses and all. Its about uh, combining two souls, lives. And uh perhaps love? Its not the hardest nor easiest thing in the world. Its just big, huge. Bigger than your body.
Imagine managing your household economy. Bills, who pay this, who pay that? Electric bills dah nak naik. Minyak kereta lagi. Soon, monthly rentals. Groceries! Miscellaneous? Who knows when your pipe lines in your house might give you problems. Or maybe that stupid dumb lock at your front door is not working. See? Money. I mean, even in a relationship you want to manage your funds together pun might lead to an argument. What more when you’re married. Don’t get me started when you’re expecting a baby.
Then comes the in-laws. You know you would have to constantly make them happy. Who wouldn’t want their kid to be in good hands? Pretending in their presence would not help. I mean, its a form hypocrisy.
And all that things you’re suppose to be in it together. Ah, heavy stuff. I mean, well, hidup sendiri sekarang ni pun tak terurus, lagi nak kahwin. Ish. Mati okay.
But I’m sure they know what they’re doing. Maybe they have managed their lives well and it is time to merge them. The more the merrier right? Lol.
All the best. Love always wins right?
Haha… pardon me for thinking about marriage. All these wedding invitations and stories are making me think!