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Liar… Liar… Your Pants on Fire

Cheating Man:
A cheating man can only hide his cheating ways for so long before he gets caught. The longer a man cheats, the higher probability he will get caught. In this busy day and age, it is difficult to carry on more than one relationship. However, with inventions like the internet, accessibility to willing partners has become easier than ever. There are various ways of how to tell if your man is cheating. We have listed the top 10 signs of a cheating man below. How to know if your man is cheating? If your man exhibits any of the below, it may be time to take a closer look.

1. Spends less time with you. A cheating man must use the excuse of working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained functions so he will have time with his “other” woman.

2. Isn’t as affectionate any more. Your sex life is almost non-existent because of his other commitments. He doesn’t want to cuddle, watch a movie, hold hands or do many of the touchy things he used to.

3. He changes his physical appearance. A cheating man usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because he wants to be attractive to the other woman in his life besides you.

4. Car changes. The passenger seat in the car has been moved or there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is on an irregular station because that’s what she likes.

5. Cheating man becomes more short-tempered because of the guilty feelings as a result of the infidelity. Things that usually did not bother them suddenly start bothering them.

6. A cheating man may smell of perfume, smoke or alcohol, especially if he hasn’t had time to change them from meeting with her.

7. Behavioral changes. A cheating man frequently becomes defensive when questioned about his whereabouts. He may turn it around to accuse you of being insecure, possessive or snoopy.

8. Cell phone changes. A cheating man can not leave his telephone turned on when with you because his other woman may phone him. He may leave the room to have a telephone conversation or say strange things after he picks up a message from his lover. Watch for calls in the middle of the night. If you have access to his telephone bill, check it closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations.

9. Computer usage changes. A cheating man may utilize a computer to seek out partners or communicate with. If your man is on his computer for long periods of time at night and he closes the door so you won’t see him, he may be communicating or chatting with his love interest.

10. Changes in spending habits. You can tell if your man is cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He’s broke because he is spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his paper trail. Check any receipts, bill’s or stubs that you may have access to.

Once you know if your man is cheating or not, make sure you have a plan of action that you will take after you accuse him. You need to decide whether it’s time for you to move on or whether this relationship may be worth a second chance.

But for me I don’t ever think of having a second chance if ‘you’ cheat on me !

When the love fading

When you started your relationship you had powerful feelings of love towards your partner, but these have now faded.

You have become bored with the relationship and wonder whether it will last.

You suspect that this is the fate of all relationships.

When we fall in love with somebody we enter what has been called the honeymoon phase. During this time we hide our insecurities (which is true), as does our partner and it can feel as if we have found everlasting love. Unknown to either partner, we have entered into the relationship to try and replace our unmet needs – we believe we have found somebody who can fill the places where we feel empty or inadequate. This makes us feel whole, as if we are walking on air. It is a feeling worth remembering because it shows the true potential of the relationship.

Unfortunately these feelings often begin to fade as we become more familiar with our partner and become disappointed to discover that they have similar insecurities to us. When this happens both partners tend to fight or withdraw and the sense of togetherness and love rapidly evaporates.

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Loves fades because it is not nurtured and looked after like any other prized possession. When you take love for granted, when you abuse or misuse it, betray it, or even if you just neglect it, love will find a way to get out your way. Remember that movie, ‘Love Story’? One of the main characters said, “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.” Guess what? That’s so not true! If you do something to hurt someone you love, be it a relationship, family member or good friend, you should definitely apologize and make it up to that person. And do the little things that keep love going, like a small note, a thoughtful gift for no reason, whatever. If you feel appreciated when someone goes out of their way for you, do the same for them. Don’t take love for granted. It’s a treasure that should never be buried.

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