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Attraction != Chemistery

30 Dec 2008 by angelicdevil

let’s say there is no more chemistry in the relationship, i don’t think annyone is to blame but i guess this is a question to ponder:


when you get into a relationship with the girl, is it because of mere attraction or because there is something more than that that you would really to discover?

 

it’s a known fact that sparks will fly (very high) when there is ATTRACTION right? i know males are rather visually stimulated, but thing is – be rational: is the attraction just for the moment or is it always gonna be there? because if you know it’s temporary, then it’s so not gonna work out. you may think i’m writing a little biasedly here, but i don’t mean it that way. you see, you guys TAKE THE ACTION first. so if you know it’s just INFATUATION and you are looking for something more, then don’t get into it. it wouldn’t be a waste of time, but it’ll be a very painful lesson learnt.

 

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let’s say there is indeed more but the thing is : CHEMISTRY has died down.
ask yourself again:
what made the CHEMISTRY happen in the first place?
when you court the girl, there is no doubt that the guys will all out to impress her, to win her affections. therefore, what happens is… the guys will be sensitive, they will appear committed, giving theid whole beating hearts to them. they tolerate whatever irritating little thing that the girl does because after all, you guys want the girl. you’re more tolerable with her, more sensitive, more kind and caring, loving.. protective.. the list goes on.

 

BUT AFTER YOU GET THE GIRL…

 

you can’t deny that sometimes all the efforts you first put in will just fade away right?
why?


because she’s already yours.
this will make the chemistry die.
why?
because the girl gets attracted to you, she starts loving you because of all that you have done for her in the courting process. if that’s is really just to get her, and then after that you discard your thoughtfulness, YOU ARE CHEATING THE GIRL INTO LOVING YOU.
the girl will feel very used.


this is one of the reasons why it just dies, maybe on the girl’s part. for the guys, maybe it dies because you know you already have her…

but you know what? love can survive without romance. because romance does not need to spark chemistry.
what does then?
sincerity. honesty. commitment. sensitivity. sense of belonging. security.

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Lesson of life

22 Dec 2008 by angelicdevil

…on being successful
Be more loyal to your future than to your past.
What I have is what I have accepted.

Failure + Explanation ? Success

…on life
Life does not give me what I deserve but what
I desire and determine to have i.e. what I demand.
Historical events do not foretell the future. They
only impact it. My background should not keep my
back on the ground.

Everything I desire in life requires discovery, dreaming,
determination and doggedness.

…on excuses
I don’t have an excuse. Excuses are the explanations
of failure but the truth is even if the excuses are not
there, the failure would still have occurred. The
explanations of success are called keys. Nobody is
impressed with excuses. People will only pay to know
how it was done.

… on the future
The future I do not actively create will surprise me.
My future must happen. It is either I make it happen
or I watch it happen. Nothing is at a standstill. Change
is happening so fast that it looks like a constant. As long
as I am breathing, my future has not come.

The universal laws of God
These laws deliver results regardless of who abides
by them. God is not mocked. Whatever a man sows,
he reaps in time.
It’s either you make things happen or watch things
happen or wonder what’s happening!!
Be desperate for whatever you desire.

Here they are:
1. Determine what you want. It must be known and
clear to you. You can start by knowing what you don’t
want from life.

2. Make sure what you want is something you want
no less of.

3. discover the universal laws that naturally produce
your desired result.

4. Understand how the laws function and what they
require e.g. prosperity responds only to the seeds of
prosperity. Everything in life is a seed that produces
an harvest.

5. Give the law all what it requires and no less.

The law of harvest is made up of:

  • The law of sowing
  • The law of watering
  • The law of pruning
  • The law of weeding

6. Seeds require some time before harvest comes.
There is no one all encompassing law. It is usually a
combo of laws.

7. Master the art of consistency.

Breakthrough ? prosperity

Breakthrough is an occurrence. Prosperity is a lifestyle.

My desires must be people-driven

…on packaging myself
I have got to look like a bestseller. At the entrance of my
future, dress code admits. It takes a kind of mentality to
wear a pocket square. You behave what you believe. Be
dressed for where you are going. Great packaging
enhances value. I am the CEO of a company by my name.
Let your content be rock solid and let your presentation
be waoh!

Quote of the post
“In this life, I don’t have to prove nothing to nobody
but myself.” – Unknown

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Picture Me Perfect!

14 Dec 2008 by angelicdevil

Was tagged by my friend few MONTHS ago yet I don’t know about it. Tuh la, lain kali inform me. So, here it goes.

 

PICTURE DESK PERFECT!

1. Take a picture of your desk/table

2. Don’t change anything

3. Don’t edit anything

4. Try to explain what’s on your desk

5. Tag 7 people :

 

 

 

From top shelves:

§ Picture frame of my family.

§ Tree frame of my boyfriend, Ian and me.

§ Aroma therapy oil burner.

§ Teddy bear

§ Puppy from Ilaria. Miss that Italian girlfriend of mine.

§ Australian Kangaroo

 

From left shelve:

§ 1st shelve: Stationeries such as glue, stapler, sticky tape, pin…etc

§ 2nd shelve: Medicine (Panadol, Salonpas, and Calamine) and “I Love You” teddy bear.

§ 3rd shelve: Tissue box and Holy Quran.

 

From right shelve:

§ 1st shelve: Alarm clock and Sonic Gear speaker

§ 2nd shelve: Textbooks, online notes, files, papers…etc

 

On the desk:

§ Malaysian Study textbook.

§ DELL laptop + Logitech mouse

§ Pen & Pencil Holder.

 

Bottom Shelve:

§ Extra files, more textbooks…etc

§ Box of aroma therapy candles

§ Magazines (CLEO, Seventeen…etc)


People I want to TAG:

1) Ian
2) Shat
3) Nazay
4) Suthesh
5) Fariza
6) Syude

7) Ana

 

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If I was a poet… or If I was a painter?

11 Dec 2008 by angelicdevil

We are tragic poets this lifetime
As we pen the bitterest of circumstance.
Along with soul that goes into our words
Million other emotions trigger
And we overwhelm ourselves much,
With unknown, hidden talents.

life throws at us too much sorrow and problems that we cannot ignore. most times, we wish for immunity to face it with the snap of the fingers. i feel that because of the circumstances we have all been through, and the large amount of pain we’ve encountered, all are capable of being poets – writing the most brilliant works. every life tells a story, and each story is just as interesting. all these experiences already enable us to be poets!

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Same old brand new me!

03 Dec 2008 by angelicdevil

Always have been trying to see the theme and coherence of my blog, and then I realized, with all the themes and similar topics I have been writing; I realized, its a continuation, a series, a collection.

You know, a series of my everyday life and how I have perceived the events from time to time, day to day.

A year ago it was that, and a year later, it is this. How wonderful life can be eh? We learn and grow, even unexpectedly.

Much love people!

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