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Reason, Season & Lifetime

People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.
When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through the difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are!  They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a moment and it maybe gone sooner or later.  It is just like, what would you do when the only one who can dry your tears is the one that made you cry?? 

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

 

A Lot Like Love

 

 

 

The beginning of a relationship is purely based on chemistry

It is the reaction of two different chemicals meeting each other

If there is any reaction at all, it combines the two together making it one

Sometimes there is not enough reaction to make it last

Sometimes there is more than enough

I think that when there isn’t enough, its because people change

When you step into love, you do it thinking that they are someone you so dearly love

To actually even step out of love, is when the biggest betrayal has been done to you

Or maybe just because it has become a habit and the “feeling” has died

So, would you be with someone that loves you but you don’t love him/her?

Or, would you be with someone that you love but he/she doesn’t love you?

From a logical point of view, its better to be with someone that loves you but you doesn’t love him/her because it’s a fact that they will never leave you and it gives the security blanket.

From an experience lover’s point of view, it would be better to be with someone that you love but doesn’t love you.

Why? Simply because there is satisfaction knowing you can help them in whatever that they need. Just being by their side makes you feel good and happy.

I always feel there is no reason for love. You just do. And its not wrong in loving more than the other person.

Love me because you need me.

Or need me because you love me.

I love you simply because I need you, but the fact that I need you is because I love you.

I'm Sorry

 

I just wanted to help.

But sorry if I made things worse.

I can never do things that are right.

In my dreams, you’re my prince charming and I’m your Cinderella.

In reality, we’re just lovers that turned into strangers.

 

Who's fault is it?

I was browsing thru a blog, when I saw this
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words?

The husband just said “I Love You Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn’t forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don’t multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

Take off all your envies, jealousies, and unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think

Nobody Knows but ME

The nights are lonely & days are so sad
I just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I’m missing you
And nobody knows it but me

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I feel lonely.

I feel lost.

I feel sad.

I feel stressed up.

I feel bad.

I feel unloved.

 

Well, whatever.

A bit down today.

Was supposed to do something.

But this evening ended pretty bad…

So yeah…everything goes down the drain.

Couldn’t blame anyone though.

Perhaps men are really from Mars and women are indeed from Venus.

A fight is definitely a way to make someone to remember you even when he/she are gone.

Better prepare loads of tissues for me to cry.

Scared of losing him as we seem to be apart lately

Sigh…

Way too late for me to regret now eh?

Hopefully there will be enough tissues for me tonight =.=”

we come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

*but perhaps I don’t know how to see someone perfectly*

Perfect Time

I think everyone has a certain part in their life
Where they truly wish they could
Freeze time.
Whether it was 3 years ago, today,or still to come,
Whether it was just a moment, a whole day, or a whole summer.
Everyone has a time in their life
Where they wish everything would just
Stop.
The world would stop turning,
And people would stop changing.
Because to them, at that time,
Everything Was Perfect

Spider Solitaire

Instead of studying for the field theory test next week, I’ve been playing spider solitaire for hours. Yes, hours. -.- I’ve no idea why that stupid game is addictive. Apparently, the difficult one (4 suits) is too difficult for my pea-sized brain so I’m settle with the medium one.

If you think spider solitaire is boring, well, basic computing is far worse than that. Wait till you read it. orz.

I was typing that last night but I got disconnected without notice and I got geram so I went to bed instead.

Sooo yeap, I woke up and realized that I have nothing stuffed at the back of my brain. You don’t really want to know how I’m going to do with my test don’t u.

 

Oh well… Better go study then. Plus I got assignment piling up for me to get too. And even lab report to finish. Haiya…So many things to do but so little time…